Personalization
Personalization
When searching for ways to personalize a funeral service, remember the moments you spent with the person and try to highlight the qualities that she or he is remembered for. Consider hobbies, subjects of interest, and places where the person spent much of his or her time. It can help to make lists of their passions, achievements, and memories you shared together. There are a number of ways that these lists can be incorporated into a service:
Value of Ceremony
It is important to recognize that the funeral ceremony is for the living, for those who have suffered the trauma of losing a loved one. It is through the funeral process that a number of emotional needs are met. The funeral declares that a death has occurred, commemorates the life that has been lived, and offers family and friends the opportunity to pay tribute to their loved one. Nationally known grief educator Dr. Alan Wolfelt says of the funeral: "The funeral ritual is a public, traditional and symbolic means of expressing beliefs, thoughts and feelings about the death of someone loved." The funeral ceremony gives testimony to the life of the deceased, encourages the expression of grief, provides support to mourners, allows for the embracing of faith and beliefs about life and death, offers continuity and hope for the living.
A Personal Touch
Throughout the ages, people have relied on the comforting ritual and ceremony of funerals to move them through their grief. Whether selecting burial or cremation, a funeral or memorial service is an important part of the grieving process. The main difference between these two services is whether or not the body is present. A funeral service is conducted with the body present; a memorial service is conducted in memory of the person without the body present. Consumer research and grief experts suggest meaningful ceremonies provide closure. But most importantly, the funeral is a vital part of the process that allows the bereaved to adjust to an abruptly altered life. Our funeral directors can suggest a variety of ceremonies that will help you and your family begin the essential grieving process. It is becoming more common to tailor a funeral service to reflect the personality and lifestyle of the deceased. Prayers and remembrances offered by the family and friends, favorite music, treasured belongings, pictures and mementos can all play a major role in making the final tribute fitting and moving. The family can choose to assemble a display containing photographs, favorite possessions, items from a hobby, or awards the deceased received. These items help shift the emphasis of the services to the memories of the person's life, rather than on the circumstance of his or her death. Personalization can also be added by simply choosing the most appropriate services and products available from the funeral home.
We understand the value of our services and the importance of personalization. Because details are so important to the families we serve, our funeral directors will sit down with you and discuss a variety of unique ways to add special touches and memories for your loved one.
